Divorce is death. It’s the death of who you wanted to be. It’s the death of your plans and who you thought you were. It’s letting go of specific dreams for your future and accepting the death of a relationship. It’s a time to grieve and reflect on your past choices and your future path. […]
Dating With Intention-Conclusion
Last week I spoke about dating someone “as is” If you find yourself dating and in a place of constant disproval it could be a sign that you are unsatisfied with your relationship. Anything that concerns you could become something that gets magnified later so it’s important to pay attention to things that you notice […]
Dating With Intention Part 4
Have you ever bought anything “as is”? It basically means that you are agreeing to buy something in its present state. That could end up being a deal in the long run or a pain. It all depends on how much you’ve examined your purchase and made sure it’s worth it for you to buy […]
Dating With Intention Part 3
Once you’ve figured out what page you are on personally, then it’s time to find out what your partner thinks. What are their reasons for dating? Although this is a basic question don’t make assumptions. Are they interested in companionship? Is marriage on the radar? Are they open to having children? Someone asked me today […]
Dating With Intention Part 2
One of the first ways to date with intention is to figure out what it is you personally are looking for. Having a base for yourself is a crucial first step. What things make up who you are? What’s important to your life now and what will be meaningful for you in your future? This […]
Dating with Intention
When the topic of dating comes up people have very different ideas of what dating should look like. Do you just hang out and see what happens? Do you base everything on physical attraction and work hard to make everything else fall into place? Or do you start talking about marriage and get accused of […]