Rhythms There were times when I really wanted to do something but was not been able to make it happen on the timeline I wanted. When I’m not seeing progress I can go from being hard on myself to not caring at all…at least for a little while. About three or four years ago I […]
Unrealistic Expectations Part 1
Unrealistic Expectations Part 1 You’re too picky. A phrase many women have heard before. I am completely biased in this, but the more I meet amazing women who have not been able to meet equally amazing men the more doubts I have that this is the problem. Having said that, I can honestly say that […]
The Death of Divorce- Part 3
Continuing on last week’s list of do’s and don’ts to support someone going through a separation or divorce… Don’t ask too many probing questions. Let them share what they want and ask supportive questions to show you’re interested and listening. When they have the energy or the time they will share what they are ready […]
The Death of Divorce- Part 2
To stay or walk away… What do you do when someone you know has chosen to leave a marriage or is being left? You may have your own thoughts about it. When those from outside the relationship try to support a person through separation or divorce they can mistake their good intentions and their defeated […]
The Death of Divorce
Divorce is death. It’s the death of who you wanted to be. It’s the death of your plans and who you thought you were. It’s letting go of specific dreams for your future and accepting the death of a relationship. It’s a time to grieve and reflect on your past choices and your future path. […]
Dating With Intention Part 4
Have you ever bought anything “as is”? It basically means that you are agreeing to buy something in its present state. That could end up being a deal in the long run or a pain. It all depends on how much you’ve examined your purchase and made sure it’s worth it for you to buy […]