You watch your parents struggle and vow that will never be you. You’re going to have the good life and avoid all the pain you can. Who wants to make life about working, saving, nagging and never going anywhere? No one! So as soon as you think you’re old enough, you reject the lifestyle your […]
Insecurity and Rejection
For some women it’s easy to internalize rejection. When a young girl finds a guy she likes and discovers that he likes her it can be such an exciting moment. Getting to know the other person and sharing your heart is probably the most exciting part of any relationship. You talk for hours, text all the […]
When Waiting Goes Wrong Part 2
In When Waiting Goes Wrong I spoke about the disillusionment that falls over Christian women when they are waiting for sex and their future spouse. When we focus on the what we expect from God rather than what he’s already blessed us with it’s easy to get into a bad head space. If you’re a Christian […]
Black men + white women = black women bashing
If you’ve read the rest of this series you might be wondering what all this talk of black men with white women has to do with being a black girl. Well it does effect us black girls for a few obvious reasons. We’ve seen the pictures of prominent black men who date and marry white […]
Black men and White women (Part 3)
In continuing with our early question about black men and the relationships they choose I’ll again reiterate that whoever a man chooses to love and be with is his business. Hopefully he has chosen his relationship based out of deep love and admiration for the woman that he is with. For the purposes of this article I’m […]
Why do black men love white women? (Part 2)
If you’re just joining me here in part 2 I encourage you to check out part 1 to understand my point of view as I continue this series. In the last post we talked about some normal reasons why a black man might love a white woman in this post we will look at history and […]
